Why I’m Taking My Own Advice

Why I’m Taking My Own Advice

I had my head down for hours today creating more of the Nonprofit Founders Circle–my new membership program. I’ve been fleshing out the first 12 months in advance because I want my members to have an amazing experience. I even invested in a course to learn how to build a membership program the right way!

Why am I telling you this? Because I want you to know I’m taking my own advice! 

If you’ve seen the almost-daily quotes I’ve created for my company’s Facebook Page, you know I love Visionaries and the way they serve people in need. And in many of my posts, I encourage Visionaries to not just Dream, but to get to work on their Visions.

My Vision–one of them anyway–is to make a life-changing difference for nonprofit founders who are changing the world for Good. To do that, I have to invest time, energy, and resources. Otherwise, I’d have nothing to offer them. I can’t just dream about serving them, or talk about it, or post about it. I have to get to work. And that’s what I was doing today–working on my Vision of supporting real ChangeMakers.

Taking my own advice.

Beware The Comfort Zone!

The thing is, having a Vision can be cozy and comforting. It makes us feel good, and it gives us something positive to look forward to. We share it with family and friends, and they encourage us with their head-swelling complements. Complements on our compassion and on the Change we INTEND to make in the world.

So we adore our Visions. We cling to them and recite them over and over, impressing the masses.

But getting to work on that Vision–bringing it to life–is another thing altogether! That path is not always cozy or comforting.

Sometimes it means giving up time we might prefer to use doing something else. Or it might mean asking for help, and if you’re like me, you’re not so good at that. It means moving into the unknown, and it means having the courage to take risks.

A lot of folks will spend the next 20 years Dreaming and talking about their Visions. But a few will get off the couch and put in the work to bring their Visions to life. These ChangeMakers are not about throwing something together just to say they started a nonprofit. They’ll put in the effort to build a solid organization and a program that changes lives. 

THESE are the people I want to work with! And they’re the ones I was working for today!

(Now, if you’re a couch-sitting Dreamer, I am NOT mad at you. We’re just on different paths right now.)

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Launching and leading a nonprofit is real work. It takes time, patience, and persistence–among other things. (And it’s not for everyone.)

I want to make the journey of launching and leading a nonprofit more enjoyable. I want these ChangeMakers to reach their goals faster and with less confusion and wasted time. I want to be there as they start small, develop a track record, grow the organization, and create the Change they once dreamed of. 

These ChangeMakers are the reason I’m taking my own advice! They’re the reason I was hard at work today!

If you’re a true ChangeMaker I’m putting in the work for YOU. If you’re ready to put in the work for the people you hope to serve, I invite you to join me when the Nonprofit Founders Circle opens in a few weeks. You can click the button below to learn more and to get on my VIP Waitlist. When you do, you’ll get free training related to nonprofit startup, exclusive Founders Circle offers, and notice when program enrollment is coming up.

After reading about the membership program, drop any questions about it in the Comments below, and I’ll come back with answers. And if you know someone else who might like to read this, please share this article on your favorite social media channel using the buttons on this page.

Meanwhile, I hope YOU’RE the one who’s ready to get off the couch. If so, I’m ready to help you change the world!

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What’s In A Name? 3 Questions to Ask When Naming a Nonprofit

What’s In A Name? 3 Questions to Ask When Naming a Nonprofit

Just like a person, an organization needs a name; you can’t create a nonprofit without one. That seems pretty obvious when you think about it—a no-brainer. 

But have you ever tried to name an organization? Unless you’re going to name it after yourself, coming up with the right name is not always easy. 

If you’re ready to launch a nonprofit, and you’re thinking of names, here’s a little help. I have 3 questions to get you started. So grab paper and pencil and get ready to work. (Yes, I did go old school with the “paper and pencil” thing. I find it therapeutic. And I like to erase stuff!)

Question 1: What do you want the name to convey?

A name can do so many things. Describe something, create curiosity, inspire, confuse, entertain, or even repel. What do you want people to know, or believe, or feel when they read your organization’s name? 

You might want the name to reveal who you serve, your location, the kind of service you offer, or even the way you work—like providing emergency or in-home services. The options here are almost endless. And that’s part of the problem when you’re coming up with a name!

A Few Examples

These names give the reader clues about the organization’s mission : 

These organization names tell us some important things at a glance. They tell us who or what the organizations serve, give us an idea about the help they offer, and the third example tells us the geographic focus.

Simple, clear, informative naming like this is one way to go.

You might prefer a clever name or one that’s more creative. And that’s ok. But if you want people to read your name and not have to guess what your org does, keep it straightforward like these.

Now grab your pencil and quickly brainstorm your answer to Question 1. Just breeze through it without second-guessing or editing yourself. You can come back to it later.

Question 2: What’s More Important, Present or Future?

Another question is whether the name should reflect the current program and location or be broad enough to remain valid if the nonprofit evolves.

Here’s What I Mean

Gateway Children’s Services in Mt. Sterling, Kentucky launched a project in 1981 to offer emergency shelter to at-risk youth in a 7-county area. Many of the young people they took in were victims of abuse or had attempted suicide. In response, Gateway added a therapeutic component to its program.

Gateway introduced a “cutting edge treatment program called Living It Up” in 2008, Therapeutic Foster Care and Adoption Services in 2013, and outpatient behavioral health and substance abuse services in 2015.

Not only did the organization expand its services to meet the young people’s needs, but the organization expanded to serve the entire state of Kentucky.

What’s The Point Here?

I want you to see what Gateway didn’t do. They didn’t use the word “shelter” in their name, even though they were creating a youth shelter. And they didn’t get too specific about the kinds of young people they were serving. They didn’t add “runaway youth” to the name, for example.

They could’ve done those things, and nothing would have been wrong with that. But in this case, Gateway’s clients and programming expanded over time, and the nonprofit didn’t outgrow its name.

Sweet, right?

So what’s your preference: a name that clearly defines your current program or one that will survive if your program evolves? It’s your choice. Still, let me caution you that a more restrictive name might confuse people a few years from now if your program evolves.

Now it’s time to brainstorm a few answers to Question 2.

Question 3: Will It Cause Confusion?

Most likely, your state won’t let you register a nonprofit corporation name that’s already in use there. Obviously, that cuts down on confusion. You’ll want to avoid other types of confusion, too.

Avoid names that sound too much like national brands or well-known companies. This might cause confusion, or people may assume your organization is connected to the brand.

As you name your organization, you should also search the internet to see who else might be using the name or website domain name you want to use. You might find that an organization four states away is using the name you’ve chosen. Your state will let you use it, and you won’t have any trouble locally. But that could change if both organizations have an online presence.

Finally, avoid stepping on someone else’s registered trade name. Otherwise, you might open a “cease and desist” letter from an attorney demanding that you stop using the name. (This actually happened to a church I attended a long time ago!) So, conduct a search at the U.S. Patent and Trademark Office, and avoid names that you find listed as “live.”

A Few Extra Cautions

Here are a few more things to watch out for when you’re choosing a name:

  • Avoid “tortured” acronyms. You might love the word “unity,” for example, but if you have to blow out brain cells to come up with an org name that spells unity, STOP it! When people read your org name, instead of saying, “Oh. I’d like to know more,” they’re more likely to think, “What the….?” (You get my meaning.) Just K.I.S.S.–Keep It Simple, Shirley!
  • Avoid snicker-producing acronyms. Here in the U.S., folks are addicted to shortening names. So someone will probably use an acronym for your org even if you don’t. Check the acronym your name creates and make sure it doesn’t spell a 4-letter word or some embarrassing body function. Otherwise, folk might be laughing behind your back!
  • And finally, be sure the name doesn’t imply something your organization doesn’t do. Here’s a fictitious example: If I’m experiencing a crisis, I expect Crabgrass Crisis Center to help me right away. But if I call them and the rep only gives me a list of phone numbers to call, I’m going to be frustrated, disappointed, and angry. The nonprofit seems to be an organization that doesn’t deliver what the name promises. Enough situations like that will ruin an organization’s reputation.

Time for your final exercise! Jot down the list of names you’re considering. Run them through the questions above, and choose your favorite name.

The Bottom Line

Naming an organization is NOT just about the facts. It’s also emotional. The nonprofit you want to launch is close to your heart, and so is its name. I get it.

So use your good judgment, your imagination, and these ideas, and get this one done. Don’t get stuck here! The people you want to serve are waiting for you to bring your vision to life! And serving them is much more important than any name you might choose.
How are you doing coming up with an organization name? Please tell us about it in the Comments, and we’ll help you if you need it!

P.S. Ready to launch a nonprofit? If you want a mentor to walk through this journey with you and your team, get ready to join my upcoming Founders Circle Mentoring Program. Click below for updates about the program.

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Small Beginnings, Big Possibilities

Small Beginnings, Big Possibilities

Some of us have big Dreams. Dreams of helping people in need. Dreams of making our lives count for something important. Dreams of doing something that needs to be done, that no one else is doing. 

We dream big because we’re natural-born ChangeMakers.

So…why haven’t we gotten started yet? Why is the Dream still just a dream?

Fear of Starting Small

Maybe because the Dream is so big, we think only a big program or project will have the BIG impact we want to have. We don’t have the resources to start Big right now; so anything we start would have to be small. Small and insignificant.

And that’s not what we’re about. Right?

So instead of starting small, we do nothing. We keep dreaming the Dream. And talking about the Dream. And waiting for the far-off “someday” when the Dream comes true.

All because we’re afraid—or maybe too prideful?—to start small.

Great Things Come In Small Packages

Ask any woman who’s ever gotten a beautiful necklace or an engagement ring if great things come in small packages. Yes, they do!

So why not consider starting small with your Dream?

A small beginning doesn’t have to mean an unimportant one. There’s no reason it should lack impact. 

Imagine the look on the faces of a handful of children when you provide them with stylish, well-fitting school clothes and shoes and all the supplies they’ll need for school. Kids who wouldn’t have these without your small program.

Now, imagine how their parents will feel seeing their excited kids ready for school. Not only will their children not feel self-conscious at school, but the parents can now use their scarce resources to buy nutritious food instead of school clothes and supplies.

This wouldn’t require a big project, but what a difference that would make! For the kids and the parents!

Small can have real impact!

Break It Down

Okay, so maybe you’re convinced that you don’t have to wait 10 long years and 1 dark night to pursue your big Dream. You’re okay with starting small.

But how do you do that?

The how-to will vary from one Dream to the other. Each program or project will be different. But to help you get started, here are 4 things to try:

  1. First, identify what you’ll need to make your program successful. Not down to the paperclips; just list the important things. (Volunteers, space, supplies, types of equipment, etc.)
  2. Consider the resources you have and decide how to use them. (Your time, volunteer time from family and friends, contributions from your savings, your coworkers, and friends, etc.)
  3. Then brainstorm ways to serve just a few people at a time or to serve a smaller geographic area. Work with the resources you have. For example, limit the number of people you serve in a month–to say 100–instead of everyone who comes in the door. Or, if you hope to serve your county, start by serving a small neighborhood in your county.
  4. Explore potential partnerships, especially with organizations that offer other services to the same people you hope to serve. For example, if you offer a support group for people with a particular medical diagnosis, maybe you can partner with the local clinic and the regional hospital. They might provide space and referrals.

As you open your mind to new possibilities and start talking to people in your community, you’ll probably come up with other ideas. Keep exploring options until you’ve crafted a program you can launch sooner rather than later.

Small Start, Big Bonus

You might see the benefit of starting small and maybe even the need to do it. But I wonder if you’ve considered those extra bonuses?

Of course, you’ve probably thought about the appreciation you’ll get from the people you help and the satisfaction of pursuing your Purpose. Of making a real difference in the world.

You might not have considered momentum. Things at rest tend to stay at rest, and things in motion tend to stay in motion. (Thanks, Sir Isaac Newton!) Your small start can energize you, get you off the sofa and into action. And as you stay in motion, you’ll serve more people, make new connections, and see new possibilities.

Plus, your small start can be the seed of new growth. How? Many—if not most—grantmakers prefer to support efforts that have a track record–that are stable and sustainable. They don’t want to be your savior. They want to know you can survive without them.

Starting small will give you a chance to build your program and your organization slowly and to develop a track record of success. Grantmakers and other contributors like that.

And those grants and contributions could be the ticket to your organization’s growth.

Now It’s Your Turn

So how can you start small? I’d love for you to Comment below and let me know your ideas for starting small. Or maybe you have questions. Let’s start a conversation; maybe I can help.

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4 Reasons Your Church Should Say Yes to Nonprofit Startup

4 Reasons Your Church Should Say Yes to Nonprofit Startup

I grew up in church learning godly values like telling the truth and helping those who are less fortunate. I’m sure your church teaches those same values. And if your church is like mine, you put action behind your values by giving practical help like food and clothing to your neighbors in need.

In some places–especially urban areas–no matter how much help our churches offer, the need never ends. In fact, it can outstrip our resources and leave our church leaders searching for answers. It’s been that way here in the Washington, DC region for a long, long time.


Starting a separate charitable nonprofit is one possible answer. But this is a big decision for a church. One reason is that churches often work differently than nonprofits, and the “clash of cultures” can be disruptive.


So even though starting a charitable nonprofit is not the only answer, I can tell you at least 4 good reasons for your church to do it. Take a look and see if any of these feel right.


You’ve probably seen a steady increase in the people coming to your church for help. It’s common for social services agencies and houses of worship to receive far more requests for help than they can answer. If your church plans to meet that growing need, you’ll have to increase the scale of your program.

Another word for that is “expand.”


Let’s admit it; in most churches, a few members do most of the work. The dreaded Pareto Principle–known as the 80-20 Rule–pops up in the church, too!

You DO NOT want to burn out or drive away that faithful 20 percent by asking too much of them. You may want to run your expanded programs with church volunteers, and maybe you can. But with a large enough expansion, count on needing either additional outside volunteers or paid staff. Or both!

You may also need more space and better recordkeeping and program management as you increase the scale. A nonprofit organization can give you the structure you need to manage the expansion and ensure high-quality services without causing your active members to tip out the back door.

So reason #1 to say yes is the ability to expand and serve many more people.


Here’s another common situation: As you feed hungry families, you realize the parents need help with job training, résumé development and, interview skills. They’re unemployed or underemployed and need to solve that in order to pay the rent and buy necessities.

So you decide to deepen the scope of your services to answer those needs, too. “Deepen the scope” is another way of saying you want to tackle the root cause of the problem instead of just patching the problem over and over.

Volunteers May Not Be Enough

For these “deeper” programs, you’ll probably need workers with advanced skills, licenses, or specific expertise. You may not have people with these credentials inside your pool of volunteers.

Churches minister to people in many ways, but the church is not necessarily equipped to address all of these social challenges. So creating a nonprofit lets the church focus on its spiritual mission while ensuring that these other needs are also being met.

So Reason 2 to say yes is to help your neighbors overcome obstacles that keep them chronically dependent upon charitable services.


It’s no secret that serving people in need can be costly. If your church needs tens or hundreds of thousands of dollars to serve your community, you probably need a funding base that goes beyond family, friends, and church members.

Here’s a Reality Check

Everyone loves the fact that churches help people in need. But most US grantmakers and some individual donors will NOT contribute to programs operated by churches. But a separate nonprofit can compete for charitable and educational grants, contracts, and donations that aren’t available to your church.

Of course, you still want support from family, friends, and members. You just don’t want your services to be limited by the funds they can contribute.

Reason 3 to say yes is to attract large enough grants, contracts, and donations to help you transform the lives of the people you serve. 


Whenever you work with people, you run the risk of legal challenges. Someone slips on your front step, and they sue. Someone doesn’t like the advice they got from a program volunteer, and they want to sue. A volunteer feels discriminated against, and they file a complaint.

If you run these programs through your church–you guessed it!–your church is the target. So an advantage of running your social programs through a separate nonprofit it to reduce the likelihood that your church will be named in a lawsuit by an unhappy participant.

I Can’t Promise

Now, I’m not a lawyer, and I can’t promise you your church WON’T be sued. People sometimes look for the deepest pockets around and might still try to target your church. But if your nonprofit has an independent board, and if it doesn’t operate programs on church property I believe legal charges related to the social programs would be filed against the nonprofit.

You don’t want one unhappy client to damage your church’s reputation and strip away some of its assets.

I know. The idea of getting sued is rotten, no matter which organization is the target. But lawsuits are a modern reality, so talk with your lawyer, accountant, and insurance professional about ways to protect your assets. And since rules vary from state to state, ask how a separate nonprofit can protect your church’s assets.

Reason 4 to say yes is to protect your church’s assets from liabilities related to your charitable services.


I’ve shared 4 reasons your church should launch a separate nonprofit. But let me be clear: I’m NOT saying it’s easier.

Smarter, yes. Easier? Probably not.

You and your team will go through a transition, and we all know change can be hard even when it’s good.

Setting up a charitable organization would be your first transition. So if you’d like to learn how it’s done, click the image below to request my free ebook, Your Nonprofit Startup Guide. It’s a super quick read.

If you’d like to talk with me about whether nonprofit startup might be right for your church, you can request a free 20-minute discovery call HERE.

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Did any of those reasons strike a chord with you? I’d love it if you’d tell me about it in the Comments. Nothing fancy, just a quick line or two. I’m eager to hear what’s happening at your church!

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